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Everybody’s a facilitator, whether you know it or not. Three ways to learn the most human skill going

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Facilitation is always happening. If you put even a little effort into learning facilitation, you’ll get meetings of all sorts to the best possible outcomes & help everyone around you have a better time.

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Have you ever met someone who calls themselves a facilitator? It’s not the most common job, but they’re out there. For every facilitator you meet, you’ll meet a dozen people who don’t use the title but treat it a skill they pay attention to and develop over time. And for every one of these, you’ll find a hundred people who have no real idea of what facilitation is. When they have to run a meeting they fall back on boring, stultifying time-wasters like presentations, open discussions, and brainstorms.

Any gathering of 3 or more people is being actively facilitated, whether the hosts realize it or not. Whenever you’ve felt bored or disengaged in a meeting and had to sit there, that meeting was poorly facilitated. For a lot of us, ‘work is just meetings,’ so this adds up to a huge, frustrating waste of time.

Poor facilitation is everywhere and it’s terrible. No amount of happy crappy from an LLM chatbot or beautiful slides from a consultant can deal with this. It is a separate, deeply human thing that has to get sorted out if we want to solve problems and act skillfully as groups in the workplace. The meeting cost calculator is running.

And for the most part, meeting or workshop facilitation is not the main thing people want to deal with. They’re focused on the people, problems and decisions at hand.

So my question is—where do people learn this stuff? I’ve noticed three ways. People learn facilitation:

  1. informally,
  2. formally, and
  3. by practicing.

Let’s look at each. I’ll share my experience, some findings from an industry survey, and a few starting points or offerings.

How I got my facilitation chops

I got interested in facilitation as a grad student back in 2006, when I went to a niche web collaboration conference down in Portland. I thought I was going to hang out with pals and compare notes on nerdile web stuff on my department’s dime. But this conference was structured using open space technology and hosted by Michael Herman. After seeing how he worked, I wanted to do it myself. This is like saying you got interested in guitar after seeing Roger Waters play in a coffee shop.

I stuck with that interest. First, as a way to scoot through grad school—an environment where I saw a lot of very effective and very lousy facilitation in the classroom (teaching is a kind of facilitation). I survived many boring lectures by paying attention to what people were doing poorly, and wondering what they might do otherwise. Later, it gave me an edge in my technical consulting work. I could get people to a decision or a working consensus on what to do next.

I put together an invisible curriculum for myself, in three ways:

  1. Informally, by going to local conferences with demos and workshops on facilitation methods to see a variety of approaches as used by different people. This was during the initial heyday of Liberating Structures and Lean Coffee in the Seattle area, so these were easy to access.
  2. Formally, by getting training and certifications. In my experience, the best of these are the Technology of Participation series from the Institute of Cultural Affairs (more on this later).
  3. And most importantly, by practicing. The school of hard knocks. My consulting work by this time involved planning and hosting a lot of meetings—continuous improvement workshops, human-centered design activities, public engagement sessions for government agencies, and the like. So I had opportunities to practice, and get feedback. It’s one thing to get trained in a method. Another thing to try it out during training. Still another to run it over and over in different groups solving different problems until you know what’s what.

What I notice today is this. While clients don’t tend to hire me for facilitation, that’s a big part of how we end up getting the work done. I say ‘we’ pointedly here, because spreading facilitation practices, or leaving them behind after a project is done, is one of the most durable things I do for clients. It’s something people don’t know to ask for, but they sure appreciate when they see it, and they keep using it afterwards.

How most facilitators learn

Let’s turn to SessionLab’s “State of Facilitation” report. This is a vendor of meeting planning software I’ve never used; but they commission this free annual report which is super valuable.

From this year’s report, note that only half of the respondents have a formal accreditation or training certificate related to facilitation. And of those that do, there’s a pretty wide spread:

From SessionLab’s State of Facilitation Report for 2026.

I don’t see this as a bad thing at all. Of our three ways (informal, formal, and practice), only the second is produced by training. More practice needs to be available, in addition to more training, because learning happens in the doing and teaching:

3-step method for learning anything
See one, do one, teach one ← That’s the method.

Another big opportunity people use to learn facilitation is feedback and evaluation. For the first time, this year’s “State of Facilitation” survey asked questions about evaluation. Here’s how facilitators say they’re measuring success:

From SessionLab’s State of Facilitation Report for 2026.

Notice the weighting toward activity measures, which you could think of as ways to prove that the work got done. These are also the kinds of measures that provide quick feedback items for the facilitator to build into their future sessions. So they help with everybody getting paid, feeling good, and making improvements next time. These are all good things.

You have to get down to the 7th or 8th most common responses to get to anything related to measuring results or lasting impact for the organization.

General advice for performance measurement: you want a mix of both activity and results measures. I bet most of the evaluation shown in the chart above happens too quickly after a session to speak to impacts. And that is related to the “drive-by consulting” nature of much paid facilitation work.

Personally, I’ve only been able to tease out the impact of my facilitation work by going back to clients years or even a decade after the fact (hi Susan!) to learn what really took hold after my consulting team moved on. In some cases it was a specific habit for closing a meeting that they kept doing. In others, a way of documenting/arguing about a problem that stuck. Or in one case, a method for deciding how to schedule projects that our client’s boss liked and ended up using across her whole division. Facilitation is happening everywhere.

Three ways you can learn facilitation, starting today

(1) Informal ways

Seek out meetings, workshops, events, community gatherings, and the like. Pay attention to the facilitation as well as the content. Spend half your time looking at whoever is running the event, and half your time looking at everybody else. When are people bored? When does someone perk up? Who’s disengaged, and why? Who gets shut down early and doesn’t participate again?

(2) Formal ways

I whole-heartedly recommend the Institute of Cultural Affairs’ Technology of Participation (ToP) Facilitation Methods course as a starting point. You can take it in person around the world, or online. It is the only facilitation training I’ve taken that has not been a waste of time. And I use elements from it weekly.

(3) Ways to practice

And for practice, well, ya gotta practice. That’s not to say I can’t help you, though.

Over in the Continuous Improvement Studio, I have two items of interest:

  1. A free set of facilitation zines. You can print these and bring ’em into your next meeting to run a group check-in or a project launch.
  2. A fixed-price service that will make your next high-stakes meeting a delight. I love facilitating meetings, and this is where I get to spread the love by sharing the structure and confidence that helps people enjoy it as much as I do.

And here on the site, there’s plenty to browse through:

Facilitation - Improve Something Today
“Enough of Science and of Art; / Close up those barren leaves; / Come forth, and bring with you a heart / That watches and receives.” (Wordsworth)

So my invitation is this. Find one activity in one of these three ways of learning and give it a shot. I’d be delighted to hear what you picked and how it went.

Podcast episode No. 0046: What the heck is Brian up to?

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A professional update, some new things, a request, and a reading.

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A professional update, a (re)introduction to three main things I’m working on, and a reading from Christopher Alexander et al’s “A Pattern Language.”

  1. Improve Something Today (this site!)
  2. Continuous Improvement Studio: field guides, templates, etc.
  3. Different Chairs: consulting services

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A summertime check-in: Comfort-Stretch-Panic & Disability Pride Month

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A simple method for checking in; a reading & a game for Disability Pride Month; plus some recent updates across the site.

Checking in with Comfort-Stretch-Panic

When something big is going on—when bad news arrives, as they say, on horseback—it can useful to check in. One of my favorite ways to do this can be accomplished in only a few minutes, either with a group or by yourself. Here it is.

First, take a look at this diagram:

Then, consider the question:

Where are you right now?

Really, pause for a moment. Point to the screen. Find your spot. Then take a deep breath.


  • You might think Comfort is the ideal place, but in fact it’s not, at least for long. We can and should rest in comfort, but not abide there. The familiar becomes repetitive, then eventually monotonous and boring.
  • On the other end, Panic seems like a bad deal, and it is.
  • In general, a good spot to be is with one foot in Comfort and the other in Stretch. Shift back and forth as needed. In other words, Stretch, but when it’s too much, hopefully you can lean back into Comfort rather than tip forward into Panic.
The diagram is one expression of Tom Senninger’s ‘learning zone’ model. See additional notes on learning zones from a social learning perspective.

In any group of people, individuals will find themselves in different places on the diagram at different times. It’s more of a herd than a formation. This is OK.

When facilitating a meeting or other group session, you might practice guessing where individual people are on the diagram. That can influence whether you need to slow down, mix things up, take a break, or intervene in some other way. Better than guessing: ask. Run the check-in.

And when looking at the broader context of an organization or team, you can identify forces or vectors that push people toward one side or the other of the diagram. Contemporary Amazon-style management practice is to push people to the very cusp of Panic and then to keep up the pressure. On the one hand, people can produce a lot of work in that Stretch zone, which is a way to make numbers in the short term. But on the other hand, when the pressure stays on for too long people get tilted all the way into Panic. This is much worse in the long run, both in terms of (a) how people show up and (b) the damage it does to them personally as human beings over time.

Personally, I am emerging from a little period in the Panic zone, which I barely was aware of while in there. It’s like the feeling after a summer storm. A fresh, crisp breeze and air pressure ticking back up. Time to assess the damage and figure out what’s next.

Celebrating Disability Pride Month

July is Disability Pride Month. Two offerings.

First, I revisited this writing from 2023 and I invite you to as well. “They say the body is a city with nine gates. Two of mine happen to be a little finicky.”

The world of silence: marking Disability Pride Month
Being a hearing-impaired person whose job is to listen. Quiet, noise & rest.

And second, Lissy of Play at the Office shares Find Your Words, a computer game you can play with your team.

On the site this month

I’ve been keeping up the podcast, with short episodes releasing weekly. Listen along or follow the show.

And finally, a recent blog post you might have missed:

What kind of water is this like? A simple practice for noticing awareness
A momentary observation for seeing the quality of your experience without, hopefully, worrying too much about how or why.

What kind of water is this like? A simple practice for noticing awareness

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A momentary observation for seeing the quality of your experience without, hopefully, worrying too much about how or why.

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You know I love simple practices. This is one of the simplest, coursing down the centuries since, at least, these discourses in the Pāli Canon where the Buddha is in conversation with a guy called Saṅgārava. Now Saṅgārava seems to have been a stand-in or container for various questions and metaphors about water.

You might be thinking of that cliche about ‘mind like water’. Sure, but let’s ask: what kind of water, and in what way? Water as it changes in time and place and circumstance is an example of something that is always becoming otherwise. It has this in common with you, and me, and everything around us, and in us.

So the practice, as I’ve learned it from two different teachers at two different times, is this. Take a moment and notice your own awareness. What kind of water is this like? Perhaps still, or flowing, or murky, or raging, or a turbid estuary, a snowflake or an ice sheet, or overgrown with algae, or a trickle in a dried-up stream.

As you do this, there is no need to adjust, to evaluate, to search for reasons or explanations or blame. It is a practice of noticing, and noticing only—a chance to recall or identify one sensation that is most similar to another. Some qualities are more pleasant or useful than others. And whatever it is now, it will soon be otherwise.

Wrapping up the first 10 years of Improve Something Today

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It’s been a busy two weeks on the site :)

Over the past two weeks I’ve been celebrating the first (?) decade of Improve Something Today by putting together 10 posts. I wanted to share them with you as a bit of a wrap-up, and express again my gratitude for your being a part of this, for reading what I have going on, and for replying or getting in touch with your thoughts in various ways.

So: thanks again. And here are 10 things to read, if you like. Have a great time—I know I did!

I started the series with 10 things I’ve learned during this writing:

10 things I’ve learned in 10 years of writing Improve Something Today
This site is about learning in public. As it turns a decade old, I scrounge around for 10 things I’ve learned while writing it. Also: my gratitude.

These next two posts were drafts I’d had sitting around and welcomed the excuse to dust off and share:

Two facilitation methods starting with a single line: Actions|Results & +|Δ
Two simple facilitation methods you can start anytime by drawing a single line on a sheet of paper. What these are and when to use them.
Three ways people respond to a problem (other than solving it)
Noticing responses to problems; there’s a whole set. The consultant’s reaction to each of these as they arise.

This one completes a four-part series I started in 2022:

Open space technology, principle 4: “When it is over, it is over”
Appreciating circles that have been opened but not closed.

Two topics I wanted to write about, but didn’t have as much to say on. Shorter posts work well on this site—I’ll consider more of those in the future:

Five contributions to a project: money, effort, attention, memory & wisdom
Following on Jerry Weinberg’s point that ‘the money is usually the smallest part of the price,’ what other prices are to be paid, and how should a consultant approach these contributions?
Tilopa’s six words of advice
A six-word poem to be appreciated, for today, as a poem.

And wrapping up with some favorite topics from the site, a favorite continuous improvement method, and some favorite books:

Our favorites, so far
Now that Improve Something Today is a decade old, here are some of your favorite—and my favorite—of the things I’ve offered to date.
Describing highly variable processes with Work Unit Routing Analysis (WURA)
A method for documenting & understanding processes when people say there isn’t a process.
A decade in books
Nine books I’m always reading.